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How to deal with excluding my son from the favourite activity of his peers?
This is about forbidding my son from participating in an activity all his friends partake in, not about the activity itself. How does one go about this when these are his only friends? (Please see edit based on comments before answering.…

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How to prevent my child from being indoctrinated with Christianity?
Context: We are living in a Germany and have a small child (15 months) who will go to a public kindergarten at the age of 24 months.
Problem: In our region, all public funded kindergartens also have a denomination, typically catholic. All…

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Teenage daughter refusing to go to school
For the last term and a half our 13-year-old daughter has been refusing to go to school.
This currently consists of not getting up, or not getting dressed, or ripping her school uniform so she has nothing to wear, hiding her shoes, refusing to leave…

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The teacher erased 3 pages of my 5 year old's completed homework
I have a 5-year-old smart child. He does his homework as neat as he can. Yesterday, he stayed up for an hour doing 3 pages of homework as good as he can and today when checking his copy-book, I found that his teacher had erased all the 3 pages and…

Dina Abdelhamid
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My 3 year old daughter thinks she is white. Should I tell her she's not?
My daughter is Asian [East Asian]. She goes to a daycare center that has a diverse population. She started to notice that kids have different skin colors, and she is convinced that she is white. Should I correct her?
Some context: we live in the…
user33308
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What can I as a teenager do about my insanely strict parents?
Before I start this, I just want to let everyone know that even though my parents can be completely clueless about parenting at times, I still love them very much, so don't go commenting that I'm "ungrateful" or whatever.
My parents are just really…

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Should I punish my teenage sister, whom I have full custody of, for lying to me in order to secretly see her boyfriend?
I'm 24 years old and have full custody of my 16-year-old sister. She has been living with me for the last 3 years. I found out today, from her, that she has been lying to me about spending time with a female friend in order to spend time with her…

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My girlfriend has mentioned disowning her 14 y/o transgender daughter
My girlfriend's 14 year old daughter came out to me as a girl on a bike ride when her mother wasn't there. I fully accept her and gladly refer to her by her chosen name ('Emily' for the purposes of this question) and pronouns. Emily told me she…

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I am 21 and I am terrified beyond belief of my father
I am a 21 year old female living in Egypt and I am beyond terrified of my own father...at least I think he is my father. To say it shortly, I think I might have been adopted at a young age and no one told me about it.
In Egypt, daughters must carry…

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I'm losing it, with a talkative toddler, a colicky baby, chores, work, and lack of sleep
I have a daughter who's 3 and a half, she's bright but always talking and is now at that "why everything" age.
I have another daughter who's now 4 months old. For the first 3 months she had colic which is now "getting better" but she's only ever…

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What to do with my pre-teen daughter who has been out of control since a severe accident?
Last December we were victims of a vehicle accident that killed my husband and left my son severely brain damaged. My daughter who is 12 and will be 13 in couple months was the only one in our vehicle that didn't sustain any life threatening…

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My 13-year-old son made a foolish and wasteful donation. How can I teach him he was wrong?
My son is a 13-year-old honor roll student. He comes home and has all his chores done by the time I get home. He is a great kid.
He was hanging out with his friends; this group has been friends since first grade. They were at the local skating…

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How can you deal with tantrums without spanking?
My son just turned 2, and he started throwing more tantrums on us.
He doesn't eat well or drink enough milk ... and he is becoming more adamant and says "No" more often. If we force him to drink milk, he cries, cries, and cries louder. His mom is…

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How to comfort my dad after telling him that I don't like to do anything with him?
I live with my dad and my grandmother. I don't live with my mother because several times she was caught doing drugs around my step sister. They split up when I was 6 months old.
My dad and I don't really see each other often, even though we live…

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If my 5yr old is an exceptional liar, should I expect that she will continue lying as she gets older?
I have a gorgeously adorable 5 year old daughter who over the past 6 months or so has developed a bent towards lying. Adorable + lying = bad recipe for a pushover dad (I'm really not, I may be mushy but not a pushover. honest.).
I get that all young…

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